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Wednesday, August 22, 2018

Questions while Grieving


Grace Episcopal Church
Sheboygan, Wisconsin

Grace Notes
23 August 2018

When Bad Things Happen to Good People by Rabbi Harold Kushner was a best-seller in the early 1980’s.  I confess that I have not read the book, but as the title implies the issue raised is what is called in theology theodicy (attempts to answer the question of why God “permits” evil).  I will not in a column of this length elaborate on how this question has been explored in the history of Christian thought.  I will retell, however, part an old joke in which it is observed that if you ask a priest a question he or she cannot answer the reply will be “It’s a mystery.”  If you ask this of a minister the reply will be “You have to have faith”.  The problem with the joke is the truth in it—that there are some things we can’t explain.  We can experience an answer in God’s love, and to do this we must have faith.
All of this is to preface my own approach to the vexing question which begins “How could a good and loving God allow _________ [fill in the blank]”, occasioned in my own mind by the untimely death of a daughter of this parish.  My response to the vexing question is more that of a rabbi than that of a priest or minister.  Like a rabbi I respond with an observation/questioning thought:  Before we can say that a manifest evil or hurt or loss is any evidence of the absence of a good and loving God we must first admit that we can only complain because we believe in and experience that good and love exist (and truth, and beauty).  Otherwise, what are we complaining about?!  If it really is “all random” and there is no God, then the senseless death of a dear one is senseless because there is no sense to anything.  Saying that there is no good because we observe/experience evil means we have to have some standard against which we can judge anything to be evil (as opposed to random), and that standard is the reality of good (and love, and truth, and beauty).
Of course a set of logical observations is of no comfort to one who grieves.  Those who grieve must experience love; they must experience that those around them participate in their grieving and loss, and mourn with them their own loss.  The issues attendant on theodicy are important to ponder, but not while hurt is fresh.  The only “answer” to fresh hurt is love which is unqualified and unquestioning.  The answer to loss is the embracing love of Jesus’s arms, and Our Lord appoints us to be His arms.

Grace abounds:  Please thank: 
§  Susan McIntosh for the Sunday coffee hour.
§  Bryan Stenz for pest control!
§  Ben Dobey and Bobbie May for gardening.
§  Elizabeth Schaffenburg for landscaping.

Special “Thank You’ s” :  A supply of Thank You note cards can be found on the table at the back of church nave.  When someone in the parish does something special, take the time to write them a personal note.  Also, from time to time, think about who you might want to thank for ongoing service, and let them know you have noticed!

Call for Contributions:  If you have a spiritual reflection to share, or want to point your fellow worshipers toward a resource, submit your contributions to Fr. Karl (by email) by Wednesday in the week of publication.

Special call!  Clergy discretionary accounts are provided for by church canon.  At Grace Episcopal Church the regular contributions to these funds are the loose plate offering for the first Sunday of each month.  This amount is not, on its own, sufficient to continue to fund things like jail commissary costs for prisoners (including parishioners), medical and housing costs, and work with victims of human trafficking.  Please give generously, with gifts designated “Clergy Discretionary Accounts”.

Please contribute for photocopies:  The photocopier is being subjected to frequent use that relates to parishioner’s needs and not those of the whole parish.  If you need to make copies (and please keep this to a minimum), please inform a member of the parish staff and make a contribution toward the costs of the copies.  A suggested contribution is $0.6/page.  (We are trending above budget on copy costs!)

Don’t forget “Something Extra for Grace”:  Supplemental giving envelopes can be found in pews.  If you want to give something extra, please use an envelope to ensure that you are credited. 

Music this Week:          The Fourteenth Sunday after Pentecost (Proper 16B)
                                      Dr. R. Benjamin Dobey, Music Director

Prelude                          Chorale Partita on ‘Blessed Jesus, we are here’                                                                                                         Johann Gottfried Walther
Entrance Hymn 388         “O worship the King, all glorious above”            Monkland
Offertory Hymn 460        “Alleluia! sing to Jesus”                                       Hyfrydol
Communion Hymn 691    “My faith looks up to thee”                                      Olivet 
Closing Hymn 561          Stand up, stand up for Jesus                    Morning Light
Postlude                         Prelude and Fugue in A Major                              Walther                                                              
Parish Notices:
§  All Saints’ Chapel in Elkhart Lake: The Chapel offers services at 9:00 a.m., continuing through Labor Day weekend.
§  Blessing of the Backpacks! Fr. Karl will be blessing all the backpacks and school children on August 26 at both 8:00 and 10:15 services. We invite anyone, young or old, who is starting school to come forward with their backpacks for a blessing. We also invite all teachers to come forward to be blessed in their important work, as well.
§  Save the Date: Mass in the Grass celebration on Sunday, September 9.
St. Paul’s and Grace Episcopal Churches will come together in celebration for outdoor worship with Mass at 10:15 a.m. and a picnic lunch to follow. Location: Deland Community Center, 901 Broughton Drive in Sheboygan. There will be games and activities for children’s enjoyment and inviting guests is encouraged. A food sign up can be found on the Narthex table. 
§  Thinking Theologically will be offered in Adult Education on Thursday evenings (7—9 p.m. beginning September 13).  This class is intended to allow the student to understand that the postmodern, Materialist worldview itself is in opposition to any classical understanding of reason and science, and that faith—far from being opposed to reason—is founded upon reason.
Thinking Theologically will allow the student to know and use the language of formal thought to explore his/her own faith, and to defend this faith.  The first term will focus on methodology.  No prior experience or knowledge in/of philosophy or theology will is assumed. 
§  Children’s Sunday School Begins: The teachers are making plans for another wonderful year of learning about the love of Jesus Christ! Classes will begin on September 16 at 9:00 a.m.; classrooms are found on the lower level of the Church. If you would like more information or to enroll your child(ren) in Sunday School, contact the Parish office at (920) 452-9659 office@gracesheboygan.com.
§  Healing Conference: The St. John, New London's Order of St. Luke healing ministry is hosting a healing conference, "How to Live in the Power of Christ,"  September 22, 2018 from 8:30-3:00. Subtitles include: Praying in the Power of Christ's Faith; Living in the Power of Christ's Life; Healing in the Power of Christ's Love. Opportunity for healing prayer will also be offered. The guest speaker is the Rev. Josh Acton, North American Director for the Order of St. Luke International Healing Ministry. He has been a pastor for 27 years at Anglican, Episcopal and Vineyard churches and is the spiritual leader for OSL. Cost for attendance is $30, includes presentation, lunch and breaks. For more information about the healing ministry or to register, contact Jan Peskie 920-716-5757 or joejanpeskie@gmail.com.
§  Celebration of New Ministry: The Cathedral of St. Paul, Fond du Lac will host this celebration with its new Dean, the Very Rev. Patrick Perkins on Saturday, September 29 (re-scheduled from August 25). The Rev. Ezgi Saribay Perkins will be installed as Canon Precentor. All are welcome and invited to attend. The service marks the transition of ministry for the congregation and the priest as they live into a new relationship in serving the Gospel.
§  Bulletin Prayer List and our Grace Church Prayer Team: The Episcopal Church believes in the power of prayer. Grace Church regularly prays for the needs of our own members, as well as the needs of the country, and our world.  We would be honored to pray for your needs, and the needs of your friends and relatives if they or you are in a state of trouble, sorrow, pain, or are experiencing any other adversity. Please call the Parish office at (920) 452-9659 or email office@gracesheboygan.com.



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