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Wednesday, August 3, 2016

Counsel and Confession

Grace Episcopal Church
Sheboygan, Wisconsin

Grace Notes
4 August 2016

Today is the feast of St. Jean Baptiste Marie-Vianney, the CurĂ© d’Ars (d. 1859).  St. Jean (a window of whom is found in our own Chapel of Christ the King) is considered by many to be the patron saint of confessors, although in modern parlance it is more accurate to describe him as having been extraordinarily gifted in (and popular for) spiritual and psychological counselling.  Biographical details may be found here:  http://www.missionstclare.com/english/people/aug4.html  His feast is an occasion for us to reflect, briefly, on the distinctions to be made between confession, spiritual counsel, and psychological counsel.
We may dispose with psychological counsel quickly, because it is not something we do in the Church.  This is not a comment on psychological counselling, but on the qualifications of those who act in ministry, who—despite the reality that they may have very good insights—are not trained or professionally qualified in this counselling.  Spiritual counsel is another matter.  This involves prayerful insight in which the counsellor is focused on listening—to his or her charge and very much to God—and on how to help the charge listen better to God, that God may bring about insight, illumination and new direction.  Insights are gained through all of the forms of prayer, and on how God communicates with us His will.
Confession, referred to in the prayer book as “Reconciliation of a Penitent” (BCP 447—452) involves a one-on-one meeting with a priest.  This is a rite which is additional to the general confession made at most celebrations of Holy Eucharist, but let’s first note that in the general confession (e.g., “Most merciful God …,” BCP 360) just saying the prayer is not a full confession; we must first call to mind those sins we are offering to God.  In the rite of reconciliation of a penitent (of which we say that “All may; none must; some should”), the key language describes a spiritual and mental process that can be classified as:
§  Ownership:  The sin offered is owned.  To make a confession I must identify that what is offered was an offense against God, and that this was owned by me.  There are no passive verbs in this equation!
§  Remorse:  In offering a sin I must not only recognize that it was sinful, I must also be genuinely sorry.  I must regret the sin.  I am asking that the pain/stain of this sin be lifted from me by God.  I must promise and intend real restitution to those who I have injured.
§  Petition:  I must ask God to forgive me, trusting in His mercy.
§  Resolution:  I must resolve, by God’s grace, to amend my life.
As stated, “All may; none must; some should”, but when a sin is carried the burden always grows, and making a confession involves the joy of having this burden lifted.  When God forgives a sin it is gone as described in the words of Ps. 103.12:  “As far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our sins from us.”
If you wish to make an individual confession, please contact the parish office to make an appointment.

Grace aboundsPlease thank: 
§  Bobbie May and Ben Dobey for work in the garden.
§  Those responsible for the splendid retirement luncheon for Ben:
·         Cooking and setup:  Barb MacEwen, Bernie Markevitch, Bobbie May, Polly Schmeiser, and Mary Snyder.
·         Cleanup:  Julie Davidson, Becky Elders, Bob and Anne Hanlon, Bobbie May.
·         Linens:  Jessica Ambelang.

Call for ContributionsIf you have a spiritual reflection to share, or want to point your fellow worshipers toward a resource, submit your contributions to Fr. Karl (by email) by Wednesday in the week of publication.

Don’t forget “Something Extra for Grace”:  Supplemental giving envelopes can be found in pews.  If you want to give something extra, please use an envelope to ensure that you are credited. 

Music this Week:          The Twelfth Sunday after Pentecost (Proper 14C)
                                      Organist:  Delpha McAloon

Prelude                         Two Liturgical Meditations                                   O. Royd
Entrance Hymn 7          “Christ, whose glory fills the skies”      Christ Whose Glory
Offertory Hymn 680      “O God, our help in ages past”                           St. Anne
Communion Hymn 328  “Draw nigh and take”                                        Song 46
Closing Hymn 436         “Lift up your heads, ye mighty gates”                      Truro
Postlude                        Toccata in E Minor                                        J. Pachelbel

Parish Notices

§  Call for Nominations:  Diocesan Convention will take place on Saturday, 22 October, and nominations are needed to Executive Council, Trustees, Standing Committee, etc.  If you are interested in serving, or in nominating another, details are available at www.diofdl.org.
§  ESTHER: IT’S TOUGH BEING A WOMAN: Grace Church Women’s Bible Study will begin on Monday August 29that 10:00am.  Join us for a faith journey through the Book of Esther.  Beth Moore will take us through a very personal examination of this Old Testament story of Esther as she peels back the layers of history and shows us how very contemporary and applicable the story is to our lives today. If you’ve ever felt inadequate, fearful or find yourself in situations that seem overpowering, this is the study for you. Just as it was tough being a woman in Esther’s time, it is tough being a woman today. During this nine-week study we will watch a lecture on DVD’s, use a workbook ($15.99), and talk about Beth’s teachings. The Book of Esther contains treasures to aid us in our sometimes hurried, harried and pressured lives.
              For those of you who are interested, there is a sign-up sheet in the Narthex.
§  Love INC - Love In The Name of Christ:
    • The Guild of Martha & Mary: launched their “Feed Your Soul” cooking ministry, here at Grace Church, with 3 Neighbors-In-Need referred through Love Inc. Please pray for the new cooking ministry! If you want to get involved please call Jenna, Love Inc. Coordinator, at 920-783-6701, ext. 103 or call Paul Aparicio at 920-912-6009.
    • Freedom Cry Anti-Sex Trafficking Coalition Lantern Walk: Unknown to many, Sheboygan is second (Milwaukee being first) in the State of Wisconsin regarding this horrific scourge on our community. On August 19th at 7:00 p.m at the Sheboygan County Christian High School there will be a free showing of the documentary “Nefarious” (see poster on notice board in the Narthex). Due to the images and content in the documentary, this event is for a mature audience. The Lantern Walk will take place following the documentary. Funds raised will go to Redeem and Restore in Waukesha and The Anti-Trafficking Coalition of Sheboygan County. 
    • For more information regarding Love INC, items needed and volunteer opportunities please see their July bulletin in the Narthex.
    • Women’s Mini-Week August 11-14: Held at Camp Lakotah, near Wautoma (where we hold Summer Camp), Women's Mini-Week is an annual retreat event for adult women, offering refuge, friendship, relaxation, and fun. And NO dishes! Mini-Week combines opportunities to learn with fellowship, spiritual exploration and delicious food. Women may participate as much or as little as they would like and need. Learn more and register at womensminiweek.org.
§  My First Year In Seminary: Bobby Kraft will be here on August 21st to give the aforementioned presentation at 9:00 a.m.
§  St. Mary the Virgin: Monday, August 15th we will celebrate the Feast of St. Mary the Virgin, also known as the Feast of the Assumption of Mary. We will celebrate with a Solemn Mass at 6:00 pm.
§  Eucharistic Festival: August 27, 10:30 a.m. – 2:00 p.m. at Cathedral Church of St. Paul in Fond du Lac, WI. A traditional celebration of the Sacrament, with an outdoor procession & adoration. Homilist is the Rev. Matthew Olver, Teaching Fellow in Liturgics, Nashotah House Theological Seminary. Picnic meal follows. All are welcome to this diocesan family celebration. Sign up online to help or sing in the choir. For more details see the notice board in the Narthex or visit diofdl.org/ef. Commemoration of Blessed Charles Chapman Grafton: Included in the Eucharistic Festival is The Grafton Lecture, 1:00–2:00 p.m in St. Augustine’s Chapel. Matthew P. Payne presents “A Brief History of An Episcopal Orthodox Affair: a Russian and a Bostonian” with response from festival homilist, Fr. Matthew Olver.
§  Blessing of the Backpacks! We will be blessing all the backpacks and school children as well as all the teachers, on August 28th at both 8:00 and 10:15 services. We will invite everyone, young and old, who are starting school to come forward with their backpacks for a blessing. We will also ask all the teachers to come forward to be blessed in their important work as well.
§  Mass in the Grass: Please join us Sunday, September 11, 2016 for an outdoor Mass and All Church Picnic together with the parish of St. Peter, Sheboygan Falls and the parish of St. Paul, Plymouth. This event will take place at Deland Community Center, 901 Broughton Dr., Sheboygan, beginning with Mass at 10:00 a.m. with lunch following. There will be games and activities for our children’s enjoyment. Inviting guests is encouraged. There will be ONE MASS only that day. We will be asking for donations of cookies/bars, potato chips, and monetary donations to defray the costs which will be shared amongst all three parishes. We will also be asking for volunteers for set-up and clean-up and two individuals to help in roasting the pigs the day before. Please sign up on the sheet on the Narthex table.
§  Sunday School Begins: We are getting excited about Sunday School! The teachers are making plans for another wonderful year of learning about the love of Jesus Christ! Sunday School will begin on September 18th at 9:00am. Please watch for more information.
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